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“Unless You Eat My Flesh”: What Did Jesus Really Mean? Navigating Hyperbole, Context, and Faith

I recently found myself in a conversation with someone who was shocked that I wasn’t convinced by a Marian apparition I had seen, and even more taken aback when I said I didn’t feel a personal need to take communion. “If Jesus said you have no life in you unless you eat His flesh and drink His blood,” she asked, “why would you say you have no need to obey Him?”


That’s a fair question—one worth unpacking carefully.


For many people of faith, especially within the Catholic and Orthodox traditions, John 6:53 is taken as a literal and non-negotiable instruction from Christ:


“Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you.” John 6:53 (ESV)


This verse is deeply powerful—and understandably, it shapes Eucharistic theology for millions. But how should we read it? Is Jesus giving us a literal command, or is He teaching something deeper through the art of language?


Let’s look closer.


Jesus and the Art of Hyperbole


Jesus frequently used hyperbolic language to jolt His audience into paying attention and to emphasize spiritual truths.


Examples include:

“If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away."  — Matthew 5:29

 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother... he cannot be my disciple.” Luke 14:26


Clearly, Jesus didn’t literally mean to gouge out eyes or hate one’s parents. These are rhetorical strategies—tools of a first-century Jewish teacher.


 “Eat My Flesh”: Grammatical Clues in John 6


In John 6, Jesus initially uses the Greek verb phagō (φαγώ), meaning "to eat" in a general sense. Later, He shifts to trōgō (τρώγω), a more graphic word meaning “to gnaw” or “chew.” This shift is often interpreted as intensifying His teaching—but this doesn’t automatically mean He was speaking literally.


Some Church Fathers, like Origen, saw these hard sayings as symbolic:


 “We are said to drink the blood of Christ not only in the rite of the sacraments, but also when we receive His words, in which life dwells.”

Origen, Commentary on Matthew 85


Others, like Augustine, likewise emphasized spiritual understanding:


 “Understand spiritually what I have said. You are not to eat this body which you see, nor to drink that blood which they who crucify me will pour out. I have commended unto you a certain mystery; spiritually understood, it will quicken.”

Augustine, Tractate 27 on the Gospel of John


So even in the early centuries of the Church, there was rich diversity in how these passages were interpreted—not a single uniform view.


 The Bigger Picture in John 6


When Jesus says “I am the bread of life,” He also adds:


 “The words that I have spoken to you are spirit and life.”

John 6:63


This is a strong hint that Jesus is speaking on a spiritual level, not a purely physical one. Many scholars believe verse 63 is a direct response to the confusion stirred by the earlier, more graphic metaphors.


Obedience and Relationship


I don’t say “I have no need to obey Jesus.” What I mean is that I do not believe that participation in a particular ritual is the only or exclusive way to receive spiritual life. Jesus invites us into relationship, not just ritual. That relationship is shaped by faith, grace, humility, and love.


To be clear, I respect the Eucharist. I believe Christ can be present in it. But I don’t believe God is limited to it. As Justin Martyr wrote in the second century:


 “The food which is blessed by the prayer of His word... is the flesh and blood of that Jesus who was made flesh.”

First Apology, Chapter 66


Even Justin emphasized that the prayer and the Word were what transformed the bread—not the ritual itself, but the heart and Spirit behind it.


 Wrestling with Faith is Okay


If you’re navigating faith and feeling unsure how to interpret difficult passages—especially ones that come with heavy theological expectations—please know that you're not alone.


The Church has always wrestled with how to balance the literal and the spiritual, the ritual and the relational. You don’t have to have it all figured out to love Jesus or to follow Him. Ask questions. Study. Pray. Listen. And most of all—trust that He meets you in your honesty.


 Final Thought


I don’t reject John 6. I just believe its depth goes beyond literal consumption. When Jesus said, “I am the Bread of Life,” He wasn’t reducing salvation to a ritual act—He was inviting us to abide in Him, every day, in every way.


“Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.” Matthew 4:4


And that Word, I believe, is still alive, still nourishing, still sufficient.



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